Parent Pulse

PARENT PULSE

Parent Pulse is a bi-monthly newsletter for BBYO member parents to help keep up to date with goings on across the Order. For a century, parents have trusted us to provide a safe space in which their teens can thrive, and Parent Pulse offers an insider’s glimpse into those spaces every other month. Take a look through our past issues here!

Issue 29 | December 2024

Welcome | Around the Order | Jewish Pride | Dear Drew | In Their Words | Grab Bag | Upcoming Parent Events

 

Welcome
 

WELCOME NOTE

Dear Parents,

As we move through the holiday season, I want to take a moment to express my heartfelt gratitude to all parents who contribute to BBYO’s mission. Your support—whether through time, resources, or energy—ensures we can engage more Jewish teens in meaningful experiences that shape their futures.

The work I do is possible thanks to a generous couple, Lewis and Sandy Schneider, who met as teens in BBYO in Silver Spring, Maryland, in 1965. For the Schneiders, BBYO not only sparked their love story but also connected them to a broader Jewish community and inspired a lifelong commitment to giving back. In 2021, their vision led to the creation of the For Every Jewish Teen Campaign.

This campaign aims to reach, engage, and inspire Jewish teens in small, rural, and unique communities across the U.S. Now in its fourth year, it supports 50 communities, helping to launch new chapters and expand engagement. To date, it has reached an estimated 1,500 teens, with over 800 becoming BBYO members.

We’ve also prioritized teens who may feel disconnected from Jewish life. A virtual chapter for boarding school students, created last year by dedicated teen leaders, now connects dozens of students through BBYO On Demand. Our partnership with the Jewish Welfare Board links teens from military families with local chapters, and a new club is building an international community of Jewish military teens.

As someone who grew up in a small Jewish community in Greenville, South Carolina, this campaign is personal to me. Starting my own chapter gave me the confidence to lead and build the community I longed for. Today, it’s my greatest joy to help teens find their voice and sense of belonging through BBYO.

With gratitude and light,
Ruthie Perlman
Manager, North American New Chapters and Community Expansion

 
Around the Order
 

AROUND THE ORDER


Global Shabbat | This coming weekend, December 13 & 14, over 150 Global Shabbat programs and events will be held across the world! This year’s theme, From Strength to Strength (מחיל אל חיל), highlights how staying connected makes us all stronger. Whether it’s a Shabbat service led by talented song leaders, a friendly dinner, or fun activities like ice skating and challah making, there’s fun for everyone! We’re excited to celebrate with your teens—check out more on our Global Shabbat page.
 
Summer 2025 Staffing Application | We’re gearing up for another fun and enriching summer for our teens—and adults can play an important role! We’re looking for nurses, Jewish educators, wellness specialists, trip staff, and college-aged madrichim for BBYO Summer 2025. Check out all of the opportunities to get involved on our careers page, and if you’re teen isn’t registered yet, check out our 30+ program options at bbyosummer.org.
 
Spring Kickoffs | As we kick off the new semester, Spring Kickoffs are right around the corner! Hundreds of BBYO communities are hosting amazing opportunities for your teen to connect, learn, and make lasting memories. From roller skating parties to rock climbing, these activities are a fun way for teens to celebrate and meet new friends in your local Jewish community. To learn more about events in your area, reach out to your local BBYO staff.

 
Jewish Pride
JEWISH PRIDE

In a world that can feel heavy, the power of joy, kindness, and connection has never been more important. That’s why we're so excited to share the Jewish Youth for Unity: Photojournalism Project, a collaborative initiative uniting Jewish teens worldwide to showcase what brings light into their lives and communities.

Through this initiative, teens in 8th–12th grade are submitting original photos that capture moments of kindness, spreading joy, or giving. These stories are uplifting, inspiring, and a powerful reminder of the impact young people can make when they share their authentic selves.

Check out the stories on @JewishYouthForUnity on Instagram, and if you know a Jewish teen with a story to tell, encourage them to participate by December 15 in order to be eligible to win big prizes, including $2,000 toward college or a gap year in Israel!

 

 
DEAR DREW


Drew Fidler, LCSW-C, is the Senior Director of the BBYO Center for Adolescent Wellness, where she helps ensure that BBYO and other youth-serving organizations are places where teens can thrive through best practices in health and wellness. Email your burning questions to Drew and she’ll select questions to answer in future Parent Pulse issues.

Dear Drew: How can I support my teen in setting—and keeping—their New Year's resolutions?

Dear Parent: A new year offers a new chance to reset and invest in personal growth, but it can also feel like a pressure cooker for some teens. Parents can help by rethinking the “New Year, New You” mindset in a few ways:

  • It doesn’t have to be new. Just because it’s a New Year, the goal doesn’t need to be something entirely new. Instead, teens can focus on something they already enjoy or want to dedicate more time to, like a hobby or interest.

  • Invest in happiness. Encourage teens to focus on what truly makes them happy. The new year doesn’t have to be about health or weight loss—it should be about their personal desires for the year ahead.

  • Work together. Achieving goals is easier with support. Whether it’s an accountability partner or a friend (or you!), discuss how you can help your teen stay on track without being overbearing.

  • Keep it simple. Small, achievable goals are more likely to succeed. These smaller goals can build confidence and set the stage for tackling bigger challenges.

Most importantly, remind your teen to have fun, take healthy risks, and embrace new experiences. With a balanced mindset, you can help them set meaningful goals for a fulfilling year ahead.

 
 
In Their Words
 

IN THEIR WORDS

Celebrating a Record-breaking #givingBBYOday
On Tuesday, December 3, BBYO celebrated #givingBBYOday—a Movement-wide day of fundraising taking place on Giving Tuesday. We are so grateful to everyone across our community, including generous parent donors and teen leaders, for their role in this impactful event that directly supports our local regions. Below is a reflection from a BBYO teen who played a leadership role in this initiative:

My name is Natalie Hittelman, and I’m currently serving as the regional Gizborit (Fundraising Vice President) for Connecticut Valley Region. This year, as a teen leader working alongside more than 90 of my peers to plan and promote #givingBBYOday as part of the leadership team, I got to meet and work with so many creative individuals worldwide. Witnessing teens’ collective enthusiasm and dedication to raising funds for our regions, and creating more opportunities for teens globally to get involved in BBYO, was profoundly motivating. I am grateful that I was able to help spearhead such a powerful fundraiser and it is so meaningful to know the opportunities it will offer more teens.

My involvement in #givingBBYOday was driven by the belief that financial barriers should never hinder a teen's ability to find their place in BBYO. Leading such a powerful fundraiser was an incredible experience, as it allowed me to make a direct and meaningful impact on teens globally. I am deeply grateful for BBYO and honored to have played a significant role in #givingBBYOday. The experience reaffirmed my commitment to BBYO and my belief in the power of our community to create lasting change. I am proud and grateful that more than 7,000 supporters donated, allowing us to surpass our goal and raise more than $1,000,000 for our Movement. Thank you to the generous donors, and 1,400 teen Ambassadors worldwide, who are helping to sustain BBYO.

 
GRAB BAG


Earlier this month, BBYO’s 80th Anita M. Perlman International N’siah, Joelle Abaew, had the opportunity to meet with 106-year-old alumna Helen Levy. Helen was an active member of B’nai B’rith Women’s Organization, which eventually became B’nai B’rith Girls in 1944. (BBYO became independent of B’nai B’rith in 2002.) Helen shared her memories with Joelle and reflected on what the organization meant to her in her young adult years. Later on, Helen's granddaughter was a member of BBG and her great-grandchildren are active in the Movement today—more than 80 years after their great-grandmother first became involved.

“Meeting Helen and hearing about all that she has experienced in her lifetime, including her involvement in BBYO, was a very special experience,” Joelle shared. Stay tuned for a full recording of their remarkable conversation coming in January 2025!

 

 

Join us for a free, virtual parent education event:

Bridging the Generational Gap: Understanding Your Teen’s World

Wednesday, December 18 at 8 PM ET 

Join parents across North America for an enlightening virtual session with father-son duo David and Jonah Stillman from GenGuru. As experts in generational differences, the Stillmans will guide you through the unique characteristics of each generation, focusing on how Gen Z views the world differently from past generations. Discover what each generation needs to thrive, and gain practical tools for building stronger connections with your teens. Whether it's understanding Gen Z’s values or adapting your parenting style, this session will provide insights to help bridge the generational gap. 

REGISTER HERE