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As the senior class enters a season filled with anticipation and uncertainty, many students face the challenges of college applications and the sting of rejection letters. Yet within this experience lies an opportunity to reflect on faith, purpose, and perspective.

This week’s parsha, Vayeshev, tells the story of Joseph and his technicolor dream coat. Joseph was raised as one of the twelve sons of Jacob, but the only son of his mother, Rachel. Because of this, his brothers single him out as being his father's favorite and view him as competition. When Joseph receives a special coat, their resentment leads them to throw Joseph into a pit and sell him to passing merchants, who bring him down to Egypt. There, Joseph faces many trials: he is sold into slavery, wrongfully accused, and imprisoned. Yet, even in these moments of darkness, Gd’s plan quietly unfolds, setting the stage for Joseph’s eventual rise to power and the salvation of his family during a future famine.

This portion offers a powerful reminder that every twist in life serves a greater purpose. Joseph endured betrayal, slavery, and imprisonment, circumstances that seemed bleak and unjust. Still, those very hardships became the foundation of his rise to leadership in Egypt, the reunion with his family, and the survival of the nation of Israel. His journey illustrates that even the most difficult moments play a role in a divine plan.

This idea echoes the famous teaching of Nachum Ish Gamzu, who was known for saying “?? ?? ?????,” or “this too is for the good.” Nachum’s unwavering faith helped him see Gd’s hand in every outcome, even those that seemed tragic or frustrating. His mindset teaches that moments of difficulty can be part of a hidden good that reveals itself in time. 

Today’s students can take heart in this timeless lesson. A college rejection is not a reflection of one’s worth or potential; rather, it may be a gentle sign that another, better path lies ahead. Each closed door can lead to a new one opening, guiding every person toward where they are truly meant to be.

As the senior class prepares for the next chapter, may they find comfort in knowing that Gd’s plan unfolds with purpose, and that even in moments of disappointment, there is always reason to look toward the light. This too is for the good. 

Shabbat Shalom!

Eden Citron
Connecticut Valley Region

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