Connection
Top 10 Ways to Stay in Touch With Long-Distance Friends
With summer camps, travel, and programs bringing people together from all over, here are 10 ways to keep those long-distance friendships strong long after summer ends.
1. Don't be afraid to reach out
They're waiting for your texts or calls just as much as you are.
2. Schedule weekly FaceTimes
Having a consistent time on your calendar makes it easier to stay connected.
3. Tell them when you see something that reminds you of them
It's a simple way to let them know they're still part of your everyday life.
4. Make a shared playlist
Add all the songs you remember listening to together so you can play them whenever you miss each other.
5. Send voice memos instead of just texting
Hearing each other's voices makes it feel more like you're together.
6. Have study calls to keep each other company
Even when you're both doing your own thing, it's nice to just feel their presence.
7. Plan on going to IC or a summer program together
Having something exciting to look forward to makes the distance feel smaller.
8. Play games together
Stay connected and have a little friendly competition at the same time.
9. Send them old photos
Reminding them of a sweet or funny shared memory is always a great conversation starter.
10. Remember — they want to talk to you just as much as you want to talk to them
Long-distance friendships work best when both people keep showing up for each other.
All views expressed on content written for The Shofar represent the opinions and thoughts of the individual authors. The author biography represents the author at the time in which they were in BBYO.
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